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Hello Ladies, what is it that would help facilitate more activity and participation from the ladies on this board?  Is there something that you would like to see more of or anything that's a huge turnoff or would like to see less of?  Do you even seen much participation from the guys on here?  Let us know what we gents can do to help rebuild this community.

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #1 on: October 12, 2021, 11:16:03 AM »
Hello Ladies, what is it that would help facilitate more activity and participation from the ladies on this board?  Is there something that you would like to see more of or anything that's a huge turnoff or would like to see less of?  Do you even seen much participation from the guys on here?  Let us know what we gents can do to help rebuild this community.

I want to second the above. I'm not an admin, not even a super active participant, but if there is anything I can do (or argue for) to make this a better place for ladies to hang out I'd love to help!
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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2021, 12:24:50 PM »
I'd say not many even know about this site there's that and I don't think I've ever got a booking from this site correction I have guess what they flaked or cancelled last minute 🤔

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2021, 02:33:07 PM »
Hey,  What am I?  Chopped liver?
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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #4 on: October 12, 2021, 02:38:42 PM »
some of us like liver here okay.  And thanks for the post Superhead.  It's good to get a female perspective on how the site could work better, though as Mr.Justin_Incredible said, we're not admins so our words don't mean much but we want to try to help rebuild and repromote the community... if it's not dead yet.

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #5 on: October 12, 2021, 05:43:34 PM »
but we want to try to help rebuild and repromote the community... if it's not dead yet.

As Mark Twain said, "reports of our death are greatly exaggerated."

And seriously, it is super small but it's a lot of good people and, for the ladies, a place (I'm thinking/hoping) where the serious shoppers outnumber the looky-loos and there are a ton of veteran hobbiests which makes reconnecting with old friends pretty likely.
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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #6 on: October 12, 2021, 07:21:16 PM »
As Mark Twain said, "reports of our death are greatly exaggerated."

And seriously, it is super small but it's a lot of good people and, for the ladies, a place (I'm thinking/hoping) where the serious shoppers outnumber the looky-loos and there are a ton of veteran hobbiests which makes reconnecting with old friends pretty likely.

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #7 on: October 13, 2021, 10:40:54 AM »
Hey,  What am I?  Chopped liver?

Of course not but you are rarely from this site anyway  :)

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #8 on: October 13, 2021, 10:42:48 AM »
And thanks for the post Superhead.  It's good to get a female perspective on how the site could work better,
Haha....yes....as usual, when the first word in a subject header is LADIES, what happens?   
Mostly guys reply because they are all such experts on the female opinion......lmao.

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #9 on: October 13, 2021, 04:59:55 PM »
And as you can see I'm the only female responding I suggest catching up with the times and promote the site on social platforms what good is it if it's a secret and hard to get onto just saying most new providers are on social media because it works sites like this are becoming a thing of the past providers on Twitter hate review type forums like ter now

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #10 on: October 14, 2021, 10:32:28 AM »
I do get a lot of interaction and appointments from this site. Because I personally reach out to the lurkers.
I would much rather spend my time talking with vouched for individuals on this site than spend money on ads on other sites AND THEN spend even more time trying to screen individuals who don't understand the importance of screening. 
The members here,  on our exclusive site, get my attention first. They always have.

As far as what else would I like to see on this board? Honestly,  I generally talk in the shadows and via private message. I don't have any suggestions. 
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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #11 on: October 14, 2021, 10:45:43 AM »
I feel you you've know mostly everyone on here so it works for you. I personally get more appts from my ig than here but most from PD I'm not one to inbox back forth waiting for a response I don't have time for that texting and dms are faster I screen but it's not a deep dive like girls are doing now in 10yrs I've never had a problem other than flakes.

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #12 on: October 14, 2021, 11:04:43 AM »
But Yesssssssss to Instagram! That's a goldmine for me too. I still don't like the extra screening I have to go through for ig people compared to here, but there is much more and easier interaction.
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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #13 on: October 14, 2021, 04:28:46 PM »
I have suggested IG to a few ladies who only use it from a personal standpoint but not for work.  They doubt the value and think it's too difficult to keep their personal life separated from a work account.

I enjoy IG and initially have met many providers there and find an ad for them somewhere else after finding them there.
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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #14 on: October 14, 2021, 08:49:06 PM »
I have 2 ig accounts - one for hobbying and one for everything else. There doesn't seem to be any cross-over problems, other than suggested accounts to follow, but I don't think anyone following me on one account can see the other one.

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #15 on: October 15, 2021, 11:26:17 AM »
sometimes is only 1 degree of separation........lol .........so I'd ad the word "yet"

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #16 on: October 15, 2021, 11:44:48 AM »
IG Is definitely more interactive twitter is more xxx rated either way more appts than regular board sites.

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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #17 on: October 15, 2021, 08:48:56 PM »
sometimes is only 1 degree of separation........lol .........so I'd ad the word "yet"

Too true. On IG I have had several of my cousins come up in "suggestions for you". I wonder what my cousins think when this "Tuscano" guy comes up as a suggestion for them???
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Re: LADIES - What is it that you would like to see more of on the boards?
« Reply #18 on: October 16, 2021, 06:54:31 PM »
I went through and blocked every person in my personal life. Whenever I think of anyone or see anyone I know or might know, boom, they are blocked.  I rarely follow gents I don't know and only follow ladies that I'm confident are providers or friends of providers.  Once I'm sure a person is in the lifestyle, I allow them to follow me.   So far, so good. 
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